Filipinos and Procreation

In a country with a population that has grown so fast its people are leaving for greener pastures at an average of almost 25,000 individuals per day, would it surprise you that Filipinos are still very hung up on procreation?  It surprises me.
I’m one of the few Filipino women who picked  the apparently unpopular choice not to have kids.  Yes, it’s a choice that was made freely and without rancor.  And yes, it’s based on valid personal issues that have been threshed out and critically reviewed over and over.  Now if only people would leave me alone and  stop giving me unsolicited advice about having kids of my own who will take care of me when I grow old and senile.  If I’m senile, then I won’t care anyway so let it go.  Please.

This was my choice, please respect it.  I don’t want to give you excuses why my choice IS.  I will not blame anyone for my choice.  This is my choice.  It’s not a choice for or against another human life. This is NOT like terminating a pregnancy willfully.  I’m not selfless for it, I’m not selfish for it. It’s just a choice I made and will live with the rest of MY life.

Thank you for your all your concerns.

PS.  When I grow old and senile…please just  tell your grandkids to make sure my dirty drawers aren’t showing…. if I even have drawers that is.

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Mother’s Day and Elections

It was Mother’s Day in the Philippines yesterday.  My husband and I hosted lunch at our place for my mother and invited my 3 sisters and my one brother and their families.  I think my mom was happy.  She’s not all very well now that diabetes has weakened her.  Oh, she’s still feisty….but not as feisty as we always remembered her.

Yesterday, glimpses of her old self came back while she was talking religion with the Eldest Nephew.  She’s not very happy with all the new ideas people have about faith, especially not about discussing it in family gatherings.  But I also saw her smile a happy, contented smile a few times during the day and that made all the work worth it.

Speaking of the Eldest Nephew, he turned a whopping 25 earlier this year.  It’s been an eventful year so far for him.  He decided on a career change.  He made his first out of the country business trip.  Then he and his girl of a couple of years, his first serious relationship, decided to call it quits.   All these developments leave a lump in my throat because I will always see my nephews and nieces when they were little babies and kids.  Oh how our family enjoyed them during those early years!

Now that the older ones are adults, it also a pleasure watching them weave through the tangled web that life is.  It’s greater still to listen to them when they express their opinions about adult issues like religion and faith, politics, the economy, career choices, marriage and relationships.

Eldest Nephew was just telling us about his and his old childhood buddies’ recent get-togethers and all the things they discussed.  This group of some 10-12 single, 25-year old young professionals are now shifting their talks from basketball cards, girls and partying to politics, business and  “grown-up” issues.

As far as politics goes, they were not looking at politics with an eye on the personalities but on issues and voting with their conscience with a focus on the future.  Just one of them still had his eye on a personality and their discussion got long and winded because of this guy’s rabid sentiments.

The Philippines is having the 2007 mid-term elections today, you see.  There’s still a lot of election-related violence everywhere in the country.  The system of electing our officials is still antiquated and prone to all sorts of anomalies.  And the saddest part is, the majority of our people are still focused on personality-based politics and not the issues.
But in Eldest Nephew’s group, 1 out of 12 focusing on the wrong issue is not bad at all I have to say.  There’s a bright future for the country – still.

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Paris in the Summer

Looks like talentless, super-rich Paris Hilton’s summer plans are spoiled.  The jail she was sentenced to serve her time is full!

It is the summer after all….peak season you know.  They’re fully-booked!

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Monetizing a Blog

Do people really do it?  You see, I’ve read blogs where people say they make gazillions of dollars from their blog.  They have pictures of the checks they received from Google posted on there or high-tech gadgets, cars, even houses they bought from money they all earned from their blogs.  My question is, is this all for real or is it just a HUGE scam?

I’ve been blogging for almost a year and a half now.  I maintain another blog (www.unofficialcook.com) that makes an average of a few cents everyday.   Oh …it gets traffic, and it does get clicks.  But when clicks pay you only a cent or two – that still translates to cents for a daily average!  I can’t even pay for the lunch I feature on my posts!

My husband  who got me into blogging and who has several blogs himself makes a lot more than my cooking website.  He writes about tech stuff – GPS technology and not very many people visit his site.  But when they do and they click on an ad – it pays.  And not just a cent or two – a dollar or two!

Okay, so I’m doing it for the love of food and maybe because there’s a streak of an exhibitionist in me.  But that doesn’t mean I don’t want my blog to make me some money, honey.

Until my other blog makes real money, I’m maintaining this making money from your blog theory is just one huge scam….

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Highs and Lows

Tech I mean. Communications technology in the Philippines to be specific.

While cellular phones have experienced a great leap, the internet options have not vastly improved as far as speed.

The Short Message Service (SMS) of local phone companies was already big in the Philippines when I left for the US some years back. The cellular phones now available has vastly improved too. The choice was actually amazing and confusing to me at first.

Since I had a cellphone in the US but hardly needed it, I thought I could get by without one in the Philippines. So I thought. Eldest Sister bugged me about getting one – just a couple of weeks of our arrival! All I could think of was, “Since when did Eldest Sister get into texting?”

She must have been so impatient, she had her Youngest Kid give me her old cellphone. It’s simple, easy to use and right up my alley….don’t ask me what model, I have no clue. It’s simple to use and that’s all I need to know. Alright, it’s a Nokia.

Sweet of the Kid huh? I offered to pay for it, but she looked at her aunt very coolly and replied, “No need.” But darn, when I saw the cellphone this 13-year old was carrying, I could understand why her old one could be considered a throw-away.

Now for the internet….ugh.

I used to have a dial-up connection with a small ISP here in Bulacan. I miss that old company. When I experienced a problem with my pc, they sent a nice young man over the same day or the day after. And these kids didn’t speak gobblygook to you. They knew you’re technologically challenged and just fix the problem for you – without giving you a look that makes you feel like the dumbest person in the room afterwards too. They were the only choice back then. Slow connection and it certainly raised my phone bill – but boy they were easy to deal with. I even went to their old office and it was all boarded up. Broke my heart….

Spouse and I were told we could get wireless broadband service in our area now. Youngest Sister was using it and showed us the antenna box sitting on the roof of our old house. For very low monthly fees, you can get connected without any installation fees. How cool was that we thought…we don’t even need a landline.  A landline, now that’s another story.  Seems like you have no credibility with banks and major institutions if you don’t own a landline.  But why have one when every member of the household owns a cellphone?
The wireless connection is slower, much slower than our DSL connection back in Colorado. It’s so slow, my plans of watching PBS videos have never come to fruition. I can’t even be part of the whole YouTube craze cause the videos won’t play or is not worth watching after all the stops and gaps.  Why it’s slow is what really puzzles me.  Does the pollen level in the air have anything to do with it?  I mean, it is wireless so it can’t be too many people online all at the same time like it was in the old days of dial-up connection.
Not only that, this huge company that provides the service has terrible customer service. You dial a number that connects you to who knows where in the country and the first thing they insinuate is – you’re doing something wrong. Now, I know this is de rigueur in the customer service industry.  But that doesn’t mean I like it – at all.

And when you have no connection – at all -  do they even know about it like they should?  Oh no….a memo has NOT been sent out so there must not BE any problem.  It’s all in your head, Psycho!

I can laugh, but I don’t.  I can be patient and I usually am.  But the poor geek of a Spouse!  He’s just not used to it – yet.  He’s getting there though.

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Baby Boomer

Spouse and I have a lot of time on our hands these days. Too much sometimes…

Anyway, the other day we were talking about making changes on one of his blogs, www.retiredpay.com – go check it out and make him smile.  It’s one of the first domain names he registered and was supposed to be an online website for his divorce lawyer whom he strangely kept closely in touch with AFTER we were married. That weirded me out a couple of times…

The whole legal process of his divorce seemed to fascinate Spouse and he may not admit this but his eyes shine when talking about these things.
Eventually his lawyer would throw him legal dilemnas/puzzles every now and then which the Spouse would find a solution for. In short, this is how Spouse got into this blog and discovered his fascination with the intricacies of the law with regard to divorce, military pay and federal retirement benefits.

As we were discussing this blog, we touched on the blog’s traffic spike on Firdays and weekends, something we’ve always attributed to potential retirees doing their research after wrapping up the week that was – at work we always surmised. His other blogs never perform this way.

Then it hit me just now, I’m a baby boomer myself. I’m in my 40′s and do fall in that category of people born in the period of the baby boom generation.

Heck, I guess I can even call myself retired after we moved back to the Philippines!

I have no job, there was an offer that fizzled out but I haven’t really looked at what’s out there since we moved here 6 months ago. So yes, I’m jobless. I watch the chicken stewing in the pot pretty closely and started watching the squash blossoms grow in the yard….OMG!
Can I officially lump myself with all the retired baby boomers in the world now? When did this all happen? What on earth do I do with myself now? Does this mean my life is over?

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Pray Away The Gay

I was quite amused to read a closing sentence about the discussion that followed after Ted Haggard was outed by a male prostitute from Denver and after claims that the once very popular Rev. Ted Haggard was now completely heteresexual.  The article by Cary Leider-Vogrin who writes for the  Colorado Springs Gazette ends with this one question from Wayne Besen of the gay activist group, Truth Wins OUT –   ”If this guy couldn’t pray away the gay, who can?”

The article is actually titled, “Saved or Shoved Back into the Closet?” and appears in the Feb. 19, 2007 issue.  It comes right after a letter from the overseers of the New Life Church that Ted Haggard founded was released to its congregation. 

The pastor formerly known as Rev. Ted Haggard was said to be so powerful in politics, Dubya was a regular caller.  He was once so powerful he led the National Association of Evangelicals, almost like  being the Pope in Rome.

During the duration of my stay in Colorado, we had Tom Brokaw and Barbara Walters coming to Colorado Springs to do a feaure on evangelical ministries based there.  Colorado Springs is also home to the  huge Focus on the Family led by the Rev. James Dobson.  But the New Life Church and Ted Haggard had overshadowed their place in national importance. 

Oh yeah, Colorado Springs was a rocking place to be if you were an evangelical or a hardcore political conservative.  Dare I say it probably isn’t so these days? 

Wow….how things have changed since we left in late October…there’s a hospital that’s half-built on the corner of Powers Boulevard and Woodmen Road.  Then there’s finally going to be a Costco in the Springs, right on the corner of Powers and Barnes Road – ironically jus a few blocks from where we lived – and it’s opening come Thanksgiving of this year! 

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Not A Test

I’m using Windows Live Writer software that Spouse has been using for some months now.  He installed it on my desktop and showed me the other day how to use it.  As usual, I had one eyebrow raised when he was showing me how it worked – how EASILY it worked.  And so explains the previous “Post Test” post .

 

It works great!!!!  Hope all you bloggers out there will check it out.   I know I’ve been away for some time…lots of things going on in real life.  I will get back to blogging here soon though….blogging from another part of the world too.  Yup, the other side of the globe, my home country, the Philippines.

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Post Test

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Storms A-Brewin’

The political scene in Colorado and the weather both!  I’m talking about the policital race for the congressional seat in our district and the race for the governorship of the state of Colorado.

The race is oh-so-tight  for the 5th District Congressional seat and negative ads are popping left and right.  The amazing thing about this?  This is the 5th District – the bastion of conservative Republicans in Colorado. I’ve heard it said this district was actually created so all conservatives will be lumped together in one district.  Our city is home to Evalengelical Christian superstars, the Rev. Ted Haggard and James Dobson after all.  So why does the Democratic candidate Jay Fawcett have a chance to win the seat you ask? Continue reading

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